Saturday, August 16, 2014

Sino kaya ang tototong Pabaya? - Napoleon Timonera

Alam ko na isa din kayo sa mga nakapansin sa isang post tungkol sa isang AMA na inabandona ng kanyang mga anak. Siya si Napoleon Timonera ang lalaking nagpost sa facebook at nagmamakaawa sa kanyang mga anak na suportahan siya.
Noong nakita ko pa lang ang post na ito ay nagkaroon din ako ng awa ngunit hindi ko ito pinatulan sapagkat hindi ko naman alam ang totoong istorya nang kanilang pamilya. Isa pa wala din naman akong mapapala kung sakaling isa ako sa mag share ng kanyang hinaing. Mabuti nalang at hindi ko nagawang i share ang kanyang post dahil lumabas din ang totoong katotohanan.

Ito ang sagot ng kanyang anak na isang doktora.


Sad to know that there are really many people that would rather judge first before knowing the real story.They would rather hurt people rather than know the truth first. I pray that you yourselves are also blameless and have the right to judge.I initially planned not to respond anymore and just keep quiet because this has been going on for almost 3 months already and we’re quite tired.

First of all, look at his poster, he says he is looking for his daughters, why then does he know our phone numbers? Answer: because HE KNOWS WHERE WE ARE and HE HAS BEEN IN CONTACT WITH US all these years. Why has he been in contact with us?Dahil HINDI NAMIN SYA PINABAYAAN. 

In spite of leaving us and having many mistresses already (the one he has today is his 4th), we have supported him financially, we have offered for him a place to stay.
Why then is he doing this to us? Because he has another family to support and he is old already. He has seen that in spite of the broken home he has given us, we have strove to rise above the problems and get a better life while the path that he has chosen has lead him to nowhere. Now he is asking a much larger amount, threatening us that if we did not give, papahiyain nya kami sa mga tao at sa media. He has been doing this over and over. Pag nag bigay kami, then hinto ang pananakot.

We know that if we give in again this will last for a short time only. Pag naubos ang pera, balik uli sa pangba-blackmail sa amin. So this is the interesting story of our lives that we have wished to keep to ourselves – because this should be a private matter. I don’t want to explain any no longer. I’m content that our friends and relatives know who we are and the real story and they have been supporting us through all these trying times.

Those who are bashing us, take time to think. Not all that you are seeing is the truth. Know the truth first. Before you judge, look inside you and ask yourselves. Kung anong panghuhusga ang ginawa nyo sa kapwa nyo, ganyan din ang ipapataw sa inyo. Have pity on my mother who is old already – and we’re taking care of her. She is the hero in this story but the one being praised now is the man who left us and is crediting all our achievements to himself.

By the way, ang asawa ko ang nagpatapos sa akin.So thank you everyone for giving us your thoughts. Thank God that you have not gone through what we went through and what we are going through now.

God bless you all.


Sa kanyang pahayag ay lumabas ang kabilang panig kung sino ba talaga ang may kasalanan at nagsasabi ng totoong istorya. Para sa aking opinion malaki ang naging kasalanan ng kanilang padre de pamilya dahil iniwan niya ang kanyang mga anak at nagkaroon ng ibang pamilya. Ang pagsisikap ng kanilang ina ang naging dahilan kung bakit sila nakatapos ng pag aaral. Hindi na natin alam pa ang buong istorya subalit nakakuha tayo ng magandang leksyon sa kanilang istorya.

Nawa'y maging maayos ang kanilang hidwaan dahil sa edad ng kanilang Ama ay masyado nang matanda. Alam naman natin na kapag ganung edad ay nagiging matatampuhin at palaging may sama ng loob.

Sariling opinyon lang po at salamat sa inyong istorya......